What Women Look For In Men

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What do women look for in men? First off, it’s very important to understand that women are much different from men. Men and women are hard wired differently. This causes frustration. However, through understanding women, frustration can be minimized. 

Men are attracted to a way a woman looks. Women are also attracted to features of men, but they respond much more to their emotionally circuitry. In other words, they’re attracted to a man by how the man makes them feel. If you push the right buttons, you’ll make them feel a positive emotion towards you. If you don’t, well I think you know already. What’s amazing is that her responses have nothing to do with you. She’s just responding to how you’ve approached her. 

So what are some basic things women look for in men? Let’s take a look.

Appearance- On a subconscious level, women are going to be attracted to the taller and better looking man. Is this an excuse for men who are opposite? Absolutely not! You’re success with women is going to revolve around how you think about them. If you want to have a great relationship with them, then you have to focus your thoughts on the positive things about them. You must get rid of any negative thoughts about them. If it’s of any help, women have to do the same if they want success with men. Stuff like “women are the devil”, “women are all bitches” or on the woman’s side “men are pigs”, “men are assholes” has to go because you’re only hurting yourself. Think more like “women are awesome with me”, “women really value me” instead. Focus on more of these types of thoughts and affirmations and you’re beliefs about them will change. 

Health- A woman loves a man that takes care of himself. They love a man that loves to workout hard. I’m not saying you have to go to the gym and buy steroids. We all have a form of exercise that’s for us. There’s hiking, biking, running, boxing, martial arts, yoga, and even weightlifting. The most important thing is that you find something that is for you.

Hygiene- This one is one of the most crucial things for men to learn. Yet, there are a good amount of men that don’t take care of their hygiene. Men are shooting themselves in the head when they choose to let their hygiene go bad. Women don’t just look at this, they dissect it. So please gentlemen, take care of yourselves! Shower, shave, brush your teeth, get a good hair cut, throw away clothes that have holes in them. What are you saying about yourself if you don’t take care of yourself? Think about it. Every action has a reaction. 

Fashion- This is something that many men need help on, and that’s okay. I think it has to go back to how we are hard wired once again. Go online and do some research. Ask women about what’s good out there in the fashion world for men because this is another thing that a woman completely dissects. Again shirts with holes in them, shirts that smell so bad they can’t be washed out, and shirts that look like they’ve been pee’d on (trust me I’ve seen it) get rid of them. 

Comfort- A man has got to be comfortable with himself. If you aren’t, then who is going to be comfortable around you. Again, every action has a reaction. Give yourself permission to be you. Your approval is all you’re going to need here. 

Positive attitude- One of the most effective things you can have as man is an optimistic mind. Don’t take things so seriously. Even in dark times, there’s humor to lighten things up. 

Confidence- Be confident with yourself. A man that has himself under control is confident with himself no matter what.

Being non reactive- The only person you’re trying to impress is you. Don’t try to impress and get approval from others. 

Having personal goals- I think is one of the most attractive things a woman can find in a man is a man that has personal goals. In other words, a man with a life of his own. It’s a way that a man can put himself first instead of a woman. They really respect a man that has his mind set on a goal that he would really love to accomplish. It also puts the man on a path on discovering more about himself, which is one of life’s biggest keys. If anything, build the image that you want to be. Know yourself. 

These are the basics of what women look for in men. There’s much more to it then this. However, if anything master the basics first. Always come back to them and you’ll get through the more complex stuff easier.